Parenting Children of The Year of the Water Snake – February 10, 2013 to January 30, 2014
July 10, 2025 | Philip Young, PhD
The year of the Water Snake brings depth, intuition, and quiet determination to children born under its influence. These children are thoughtful, observant, and emotionally perceptive, often surprising others with their inner wisdom. Parenting a Water Snake child means creating an environment where they feel emotionally safe and intellectually stimulated. They thrive with routines that support their need for reflection while encouraging their subtle ambition. In this article, we’ll explore the mysterious and insightful nature of Water Snake children. There will also be practical guidance for supporting their emotional and mental development. Join us as we uncover the magic of raising a Water Snake child.
Water Snake in 2013 to 2014
The Chinese New Year follows a 60-year cycle, with each year linked to a specific element and animal. In Chinese astrology, the Water element represents depth, intuition, and emotional wisdom. Water Snake children are perceptive, intelligent, and quietly ambitious. They observe the world carefully, often thinking several steps ahead before they act.
These children possess a calm yet magnetic presence, blending charm with strategic thinking. They are deeply aware and thrive in environments that value insight, patience, and subtlety. Water Snakes excel when given space to reflect and create. Therefore, they often seek pursuits that require focus and emotional depth. Their natural ability to sense underlying truths and navigate complex situations makes them wise beyond their years. As a result, they are uniquely perceptive and succeed in thoughtful, meaningful ways.
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What Kind of Parent Are You?
To find out your Chinese Zodiac, animal and element, start at our Chinese Zodiac page. https://beta.askastrology.com/astrology/astrology-types/chinese-astrology/. Once there you can locate your year of birth to determine which is your animal. People born in late January and most of February need to look carefully for their animal. The Chinese New Year occurs on the 2nd New Moon after the Winter Solstice, which varies each year. Therefore, the Chinese year start date changes between January 21st and February 20th every year. Someone born on February 1st might be the animal of the preceding year or the incoming year.
Once you determine your animal, go to the linked animal page from the main page and see which element you have. I was born in April 1968, so I am a Monkey. I visited the page for Monkey (https://beta.askastrology.com/zodiac-signs/chinese-zodiac/monkey/). Between January 30, 1968 and February 16, 1969 the element is Earth. I am an Earth Monkey. If I had a child during the Year of the Water Snake, I would parent them as an Earth Monkey.
Animal Parent to a Water Snake Child
Each animal of the Chinese Zodiac offers unique guidance to a Water Snake child. Together, they need to create special bonds rooted in emotional intelligence and subtle ambition:
Rat: You stimulate your Water Snake child’s intellect and curiosity, encouraging deep thinking and clever problem-solving.
Ox: You provide grounding and routine, helping your child feel safe to explore their quiet determination.
Tiger: You inspire courage and action, gently pushing your Water Snake child beyond their comfort zone while respecting their pace.
Rabbit: You nurture emotional security and creativity, offering the calm environment your child needs to flourish.
Dragon: You challenge and motivate, helping your Water Snake child dream big and express their inner power.
Snake: You share a bond of mutual understanding, guiding your child’s wisdom and helping them develop trust in their inner voice.
Horse: You energize and uplift, encouraging your Water Snake child to explore life’s possibilities while honoring their need for reflection.
Goat: You offer gentleness and empathy, teaching your child the strength found in kindness and emotional awareness.
Monkey: You keep things mentally engaging, helping your Water Snake child use humor and intelligence to navigate complex situations.
Rooster: You instill discipline and focus, guiding your child to apply their insight in practical, effective ways.
Dog: You offer loyalty and protection, helping your Water Snake child feel emotionally supported as they build inner confidence.
Pig: You teach compassion and creativity, encouraging your child to trust their emotional instincts and share their gifts with others.
After determining your animal connection, explore the element interactions below for deeper insights.
Element Parent to Water Child
Each elemental parent brings a distinct energy that helps shape the emotional and intuitive nature of a Water child:
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Wood Parent: The Wood parent nurtures the Water child’s growth and imagination. They encourage emotional stretching and creative exploration, helping the child learn to trust their instincts and move forward with confidence.
Fire Parent: The Fire parent energizes the Water child, stirring passion and encouraging expressive emotion. Though sometimes overwhelming, their warmth helps the child shine more boldly and embrace their inner light.
Earth Parent: The Earth parent provides grounding and reassurance. Their steady presence offers the Water child a safe space to feel deeply and transform emotions into meaningful action.
Metal Parent: The Metal parent brings structure and discernment. They help the Water child refine their thoughts and feelings, cultivating focus, emotional clarity, and quiet resilience.
Water Parent: The Water parent shares a deep emotional resonance with the child. Their connection flows with empathy, intuition, and shared understanding, offering a bond that feels like home and guided with compassion.
Now, with the knowledge of your element and animal, you can pull together a sense of how you should parent.
Actual Parent to Child Formula
I will use my Earth Monkey element and animal as an example. I “provide grounding and reassurance to create a safe space for them to feel deeply.” Additionally, I aim to “keep things mentally engaging with humor and intelligence.”
Understanding your own Chinese Zodiac sign and that of your child can greatly enhance the parenting journey. By recognizing the unique traits associated with each zodiac animal, parents can better support and nurture their child’s development. This awareness helps with empathy, communication, and a deeper connection between parent and child. Moreover, it helps parents anticipate and navigate potential conflicts or misunderstandings, promoting a positive environment for everyone. Ultimately, embracing this ancient wisdom can lead to more fulfilling and rewarding parenting experiences.
I am a spiritual adviser located in Cary, North Carolina. I earned my PhD in English from the University of North Carolina at Greensboro in 1996 and had a career in academics until 2007, when I retired to become a stay-at-home father. In 2013 I “hung out my shingle” starting my business Black Unykorn Enterprises, LLC. I provide spiritual guidance using different tools: astrology, tarot/oracle cards, numerology, and past life regression (using muscle testing). With a home office, Zoom, WeChat, and WhatsApp, I work with local clients in person and distance clients from around the world. You can read about my practice and contact me through my website: https://www.blackunykorn.com.