There are times when you are afraid to speak your mind and speak from your heart. It is not so much because you fear what you could say.
Instead, you are fearful of what could come after you say it. That is why you avoid saying certain statements that you may find to be threatening.
That is why you will want to dig in deeply, so you no longer worry about the consequences of you saying certain things.
So, what do you fear the most of saying? Based on your zodiac sign and why you are afraid to say the things you should say more often, let’s find that out.
What Is the One Thing You Are Afraid to Say?
Aries – I Really Missed You
Aries, you are the type that prefers to be highly independent, and the last thing you want to ever see yourself as is needy. You do not want others to see that about you too. However, if you are away from someone who you care about for a while, you still miss them a lot.
Therefore, that is the phase that you should say to the one who you miss. You should tell them that you miss them. What is the worst possible thing that could happen if you say that?
That they will want to hang around you more often, which will compromise your autonomy. That is not likely going to happen. And you can never forget that you can tell them that you prefer to be alone at certain times.
Telling someone that you missed them does not mean they will cling to you.
Taurus – I Need Help With This Task
Taurus, you are very hard-working and stubborn, and you are the one that is so tenacious you will keep working on a task until you complete it. You will also keep going despite obstacles that come your way.
However, there are times when barriers are too substantial to the point that they block your progress that you will not have a choice but to lean on someone else to help you get the job done.
You will have to accept that reality, which means you will need to ask someone to help you complete the task. Asking someone for help does not make you lazy or less tenacious.
Some things are impossible to achieve alone, and that is what you need to remember. Everyone needs assistance sometimes.
Gemini – I Like You More Than a Friend
Gemini, you are friendly and versatile, but you fear commitment, and you also, at the same time, fear rejection.
How many times have you been with someone who you liked more than a friend but never spoke up and ended up losing their friendship or watched them hook up with someone else while that broke your heart? What will happen if you talk candidly with a friend about the fact that you like them more than a friend?
The worst that can happen is that you will get into a committed relationship or reject you, hurting your feelings. The chances are that one of those scenarios is likely, but in life, you have to take chances.
Cancer – I Have Never Stopped Caring About You
Cancer, you are the most emotional one around as you have the most nurturing sign of the zodiac. However, you are the one who cares about others so much that they may feel smothered by it.
Therefore, they often need to separate themselves from you, and you will interpret that as them not being grateful and caring enough about you. Unfortunately, some are ungrateful and will take your love and generosity for granted.
However, regardless of who you see that hurts you, you will give them the cold shoulder because you cannot stand anyone taking you for granted or tossing you aside after being so kind to them.
At the same time, you still care about them, and nothing will change that. If you happen to get into an argument with someone you feel has taken your kindness for granted, you should tell them that you never stopped caring for them. You may not for fear of them doing that to you again.
Leo – I Cannot Imagine My Life Without You
Leo, you are the one that focuses too much on your needs, and you want to be in the spotlight. You do not have a great way of showing that you care that someone is in your life because, on the outside, it appears that you only want anything that makes you happy. Therefore, it may seem that you only hang around with friends who have benefits.
However, that is not the truth. You may not have a great way of showing that you care other than the fact that you can be generous and warm, but that is far from the truth. You want those who you care about to share fun and excitement with you.
So, the next time a friend of yours expresses to you that they think you are taking them for granted, tell them that is far from the truth as you cherish your friendship with them. That is because you cannot imagine your life without them.
Virgo – I Really Need You
Virgo, you are analytical, focused, and do not show your emotions too much because you are not in tune with them. However, that does not mean you don’t have feelings even though you are great at hiding them.
You hide them through your work ethic and your cleaning and organizing your home. Your friends may find themselves disappearing from your life because they think that you don’t have use for them since you don’t show emotions and you are very much into your work.
However, like anyone else, you need companionship, and your friends offer you a lot. Tell them otherwise if you have a friend who is disappearing because they think you have no use for them.
Tell them that you need them, and you value their friendship. Even explain to them that you are the way you are because of your nature even though you care about them deeply.
Libra – I Wish to Be Your Friend/Partner Again
Libra, you want balance, and you are very invested in your relationships. That is why they are essential to you, but at the same time, you may find that people drop from your life, including partners, because you are indecisive, and you do not like getting into conflicts.
Therefore, they leave you, and you don’t speak up about how much you wish they gave you other chances. However, more than anything, you want them to give you another chance and to remain friends with you or lovers.
The thing is, they are not mind-readers, and if you were to admit to them that making decisions and getting into arguments cause you a lot of stress, then they would have a better understanding of who you are.
Scorpio – I Am Sorry
Scorpio, you are intense and highly passionate. However, you also are secretive, and you struggle to trust others. That means you have suspicions among those who never had any intention of hurting you in any way.
If you accuse them of doing something wrong or betraying you when they never did, then they are going to not think of you as kindly.
They will even grow more distant towards you, especially since you will not be the one to apologize for what you did. And this often happens because your ego gets in the way of that.
However, you should tell them that you are sorry for wrongly accusing them of things they never did, and you know it too.
Sagittarius – I Am Sorry for Being Selfish
Sagittarius, you have a fire sign which means you are passionate, and you also forget that the needs of others exist like Leo and Aries.
Therefore, you will be the one to focus on going on an exciting adventure that you had planned for the weekend by doing something like wall climbing instead of taking your mother to the doctor because she has been unwell, and she has no one else to take her. So that is one example of what you would do.
You focus on your needs and need for excitement too much, and you need to learn to make compromises. Therefore, you will need to start telling those like your mother and anyone else who you refused to help because you focused on your wants and were sorry for being selfish.
You know it too, which is why you should humble yourself and apologize for being selfish.
Capricorn – I Am Ready
Capricorn, you are the highly ambitious one, and you also take your time building anything. You never want to take shortcuts; however, at the same time, you never know when you are ready to do something.
You keep planning because you are making sure you do not miss a step toward attaining your goal. However, you have a slight fear of commitment when it comes to your relationships.
It does not matter if your friends invite you to a weekend away, and you decline because you don’t know if you are ready to join since you have too many other things to finish.
Or if your partner wants to take the next step in your relationship. You don’t know if you are ready to do those things. But sometimes, you are ready, and you are still afraid to say it because the idea of taking the next step scares you.
Then when you allow fear to stop you from saying you are ready, you regret it after. When you are ready to take the next step with someone, you will need to speak up.
Aquarius – My Dreams Don’t Mean a Thing If You Are Not in It
Aquarius, you are progressive, a visionary, and the type that likes to be independent, and unique, and you want to do your thing without anyone or anything interfering. But here is the thing, you become lonely like anyone else.
Since you struggle to get in touch with your feelings, you don’t acknowledge that. If you have a close friend or a partner you have been distant towards because you are so focused on your dreams and visions, you may lose them because of how detached you seem.
If only you had told them that your dreams don’t mean anything if they are not in the picture, then you may have salvaged your relationship. Too bad you did not say it when you had the opportunity.
Pisces – I Forgive You
Pisces, you are intuitive, dreamy, and emotional. You will also be the one to put your life on hold to help others. Here is the thing, you tend to hold grudges for minor offenses that others do without any ill intent, such as accidentally breaking something of yours.
Some acts are genuinely unforgivable, but something like that is not. But you may be angry with them for a long time and become passive-aggressive until you know deep down you should be forgiving them for making a mistake. If you keep up with your cold and sarcastic ways, you will lose them.
But you really do not want to do that, and in order to save your friendship or any relationship, tell them that you forgive them even though it is difficult to say those words.
Everyone has a fear of saying specific phrases even though they are necessary to say to either salvage a relationship or to speak up when it comes to your needs and wants.
It is too bad considering that so many unnecessary relationship losses happen due to not speaking up and saying words that can make all of the difference in the world.
The idea can be pretty daunting, but if a relationship is essential to you, you need to tell them something that will improve it, salvage it, or make your needs and wants to be known.
Otherwise, there will be losses and regrets.